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Pairadocs is a podcast with a Christian take on life, family, and culture. Jimmy and Josh will provide marriage and parenting insight, to be sure.  However, don't be suprised if other topics emerge,  such as sports, entertainment, politics, or the latest episode of Pioneer Woman - we have way too many women in our lives!

Aug 21, 2019

If you are as sick of politics as I am, raise your hand, right there where you are…yes, God bless you…yes, I see that hand.  Are there any others?  With the current political climate and ever-present social media bombarding our every waking moment, we can’t get away from politics, even if we wanted to.  Every song, TV show, movie, sporting event, etc. has comments, demonstrations, or snide political comments.  IT JUST NEVER ENDS!!  Join the fellas this week, as they examine, how we as believers, couples, and parents can navigate the political ocean that we’re all seemingly drowning in. 

 

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Margaret Thatcher

 

Jesus is the Answer (song)

 

Andy Bannister interview

 

Home Fires

 

 

As parents, we set the emotional tone of the home. Don't freak your kids out with your anxieties.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Aug 9, 2019

When you look in the mirror, what do you see?  What does your child see?  How does our body image impact the way we perceive ourselves and how we perceive others perceive us…I may have used the word, “perceive” one too many times?  Our self-image has an enormous influence on the quality of our lives and the lives of our children, yet how we determine that self-image can make us fickle at best and be damaging at it’s worst.  Join the guys this week as they look at how we view our physical selves, where it comes from, and how it can negatively effect our entire lives.

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Josh Harris' announcements about Christianity and his divorce

 

Solutions:

Parents set the tone

Eat to live, don't live to eat

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jul 31, 2019

You’ve heart it said that it is not good for man to be alone.  Well, this week, the guys explore exactly why that is.  This is not about being single, or the benefits of “alone time.”  It’s about the pervasive, negative impact of toxic isolation in both individuals, couples, and families.  So, in keeping with the theme, listen to this episode in a large group of your closest friends!

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"pathology, sin, addiction breeds in isolation"

 

"The fruit of the spirit will never breed in isolation"

 

Isolation - not busyness, but not having people who truly know you.

 

Solution:

 

Church! (Being involved, not just going)

Be known

 

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jul 24, 2019

This week the guys talk through essential movies to watch with your daughters. Whether you're a dad or mom, watch these movies with your girls. Through these movies you can help them learn healthy feminine traits. 

 

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History Lovers Club on Twitter

 

Top 10 Movies for Girls:

1. Parent Trap

2. Mean Girls

3. Princess Diaries

4. Freaky Friday

5. Moana

6. Brave 

7. Wizard of Oz

8. Frozen

9. A League of Their Own

10. Soul Surfer

 

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jul 15, 2019

After three episodes dealing with the devastating impact of pornography on a person’s life.  The boys thought that a wrap up session was in order.  What are some practical step to elevate this problem?  Listen in and find out…

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

 

You have to get real with someone besides the men in your life.

Pornography is infidelity.

Any sex that is selfish is wrong.

 

The addict brain tells you the exact thing to do in order to keep you addicted.

 

Disclosure is essential.

Fear is the opposite of faith.

 

Find a Certified Sexual Addication Therapist (CSAT)

 

Covenant Eyes

XXX Church

 

If your spouse confesses to you:

DON'T SHAME

Hurt, anger, sadness are ok emotions to share.

 

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jul 9, 2019

A lot of great things come in threes.  The number of outs in an inning or baseball, how many branches of government the USA has, not to mention the number of personalities that make up the holy Trinity.  But don’t forget to add to that list the number of episodes in the current Pairadocs series on the adverse effects that pornography has on the mind, relationships…and this week the world.  Please view the third video in the series found at www.mindheartworld.org and join in the discussion of the gruesome impact that porn has on society via sex trafficking, child trafficking, and the mind numbing influence that the porn industry has on those who participate in it.  Not a ton of humor in this one…

 

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

 

Fight the New Drug

 

"97 billion hours of pornography are viewed each year, equating to 52,000 years of porn are viewed each year... on ONE porn site"

 

St. Peter's foot

 

"Porn is a receipt for rape"

 

"95% of porn involves a woman getting hit"

 

"Regular porn views are 1/3 more likely to be involved in domestic violence"

 

"Porn is a documentary of a woman's humiliation"

 

Teen Vogue Approves of Sex Work for Girls

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jul 3, 2019

This week the guys are halfway through their three-part series on one of our favorite topics…pornography.  Hopefully, by now you’ve all gone to www.mindheartworld.org and watched the first two episodes of this groundbreaking documentary about the colossally negative impact that porn has on all that view it.  This week, we will thoroughly examine part two; how viewing pornography all but prevents a person from establishing or maintaining close personal relationships.  One may say, “So what?!  So, I’m watching some pornography.  What harm can there be?”  If you are married, in a long-term relationship, or ever hope to be…listen and learn my friend.  Listen and learn. 

 

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

 

Fight the New Drug

 

Harvard Study - Happiness 

 

Wall Street Movie

Michael Douglas

Ghost in the Darkness

The American President

 

Mirror Neurons

 

"You double your chances of divorce by viewing porn regularly"

 

"Happiness=Relationship/Love = Focus"

 

Keith Green

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jun 24, 2019

Welcome to a new three-part series of Pairadocs.  We don’t do this very often, but in leu of the most recent research establishing the fact that over 8 in 10 of young men between the ages of 20 and 29 are viewing hardcore pornography weekly…I did say, weekly!  We felt compelled to address this issue once again.  We need you to go to www.brainheartworld.org.  This is an amazing three-part video series produced by an amazing organization called Fight The New Drug.  Follow them on every platform that you have available to you.  We want you to log in; view the videos and then engage with us as we discuss the contents.  Part One deals with how pornography impacts…no, changes the brain.  Incredible videos, intriguing discussion.  We’ll tackle the second video next week that focuses on how porn all but short circuits our ability to have intimate relationships…Let’s do this!!

 

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Jun 3, 2019

So, what’s more fun than talking about a VERY heart wrenching topic in a way that will alienate half the listening audience?  It’s a sad subject and is even sadder that the subject has to be talked about.  Take a listen this week as Jimmy and Josh honestly discuss the tragic topic of abortion.  

 

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Roe v Wade

1 Timothy 3

Luke 6:32

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

May 28, 2019

This week the guys talk through essential movies to watch with your sons. Whether you're a dad or mom, watch these movies with your sons. Through these movies you can help them learn healthy masculine traits. 

 

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Grumpy Cat

 

Questions to ask while watching films:

 

What qualities were depicted in this film that teach us what kind of man God wants us to be? 

How can we, like Christ, stand up against insurmountable odds?

Why do some men choose to die for what they believe to be noble/right? 

 

 

Essential Movies

 

1. Field of Dreams

2. Saving Private Ryan

3. Rudy

4. Remember the Titans

5. Glory

6. Wonder

7. Braveheart

8. Gladiator

9. Apollo 13

10. Hoosiers

 

 

**Jimmy Fallon is not on Saving Private Ryan, he was in Band of Brothers

 

Facts about Paul Revere's ride

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

May 20, 2019

This week the guys participate in their own golf tournament, benefiting themselves. No surprise, no one else showed up. But Jimmy and Josh had a blast playing and having a conversation about their lives as father and son. You won't want to miss. 

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

May 14, 2019

I remember once watching John Wayne in an old movie (As every red-blooded American male should do, at least once a month) as he was waiting on top of the wall at the cavalry outpost for an attack from the marauding Indians.  He said to a much less experienced soldier, “It’s quiet…too quiet.”  In other words, when it gets too quiet, it’s all about the hit the proverbial fan!  Freeze and Flee, the last of Sue Johnson’s Demon Dialogues, has to do when couples reach the point of giving up.  When it gets quiet…too quiet.  If you find yourself or someone you love in this desperate state, listen in as the guys help you not get scalped.  Or, or you know what I mean.

 

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Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

 

Part 1 and 2 in this series:
Plank and Spec Episode

Protest Polka Episode

 

If you are stuck in the 'freeze and flee' dialogue:

- Share with your spouse a cue that begins the distancing process

- Recognize what you are telling yourself that keeps you separated

 

Problem solve, discuss with spouse:

When you do _____ I don't feel safely connected to you. Then I tend to _______. I do it in the hopes that ________. And as this pattern keeps going, I feel _________. The more I __________, the more you _______. Maybe we can warn each other when this starts.

 

 

Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas

Gottman's Stonewalling

 

Josh's Solutions:

Realize you are the problem in your marriage (humility and repentance)

Seek counsel

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

May 6, 2019

Tune in this week and Jimmy and Josh answer parent questions they received at a recent speaking engagement. The boys bat around several topics you’re sure to enjoy.  

 

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The Highwaymen

 

Lorena

 

What is the best way to approach the topic of sex with your teenager?

Early and often, don't wait until they are teenagers. This is a lifelong conversation

 

Raising an Original by Julie Lyles Carr

Preparing for Adolescence by James Dobson

 

When is a cellphone a good idea and is there an appropriate age to start?

Dumb phone - when you need to communicate with your child

Smart phone - high school/sophomore

 

How do you apologize to your kid without them using it against you later?

Apologize for your part and punish them for theirs.

They can't leverage it against you unless you let them.

 

What are the red flags that tells you your child needs counseling?

Look at their lowered level of functioning, see if anything has changed.

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Apr 29, 2019

Would you like to dance?  Well, if you’re a good Baptist (and Josh most certainly is not!), the answer would an unequivocal “no.”  And that would be the correct answer for all of us when it comes to the Protest Polka.  This deadly relationship dance is one of the main indicators of marriages that don’t make it past the 5-year mark.  Listen in as the guys, two step their way through this issue and tango their way to a solution…ok, I’m completely done with dancing puns. 

 

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My Redeemer Lives by Nicole C Mullen

 

Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

Emotionally Focused Therapy

 

Baby attachment video

 

Soften Your Start-Up (Gottman)

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Apr 22, 2019

Self-esteem. What is it? How do we acquire it? And how do we build it within our child? Is self-esteem even important? Tune in this week as the guys talk all things self-esteem and your child.

 

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Little Shop of Horrors

 

A Few Good Men

 

How we build self-esteem in our children:

- We can't just tell them how good and special they are all the time

- Make sure we allow for failure

- They need to be told they have sinned and that's why we need Jesus

- Work. Allow them to struggle

- Random expressions of love and pride

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Apr 15, 2019

So, a Sequoia Redwood and a nanoparticle of dust walk into a bar…  What do they have in common?  It’s no joke, it’s your marriage, of course!  The Bible is stuffed full of powerful and famous verses that relate to our marriage relationships.  And this week, the guys dig into Matthew 7:3-5, one of the least known and most powerful of those snippets from God’ Word concerning marital bliss.  Just to give you a heads up.  Jesus doesn’t call folks hypocrites very often…

 

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Anthony Hopkins in Silence of the Lambs - "You don't play the villain like he's the villain, because the villain is the hero in his own story."

 

ReIengage

 

"Wagging never works!" 

 

"Self-righteousness never works."

 

Dr. Susan Johnson Demon Dialogue

 

1990s Worship

 

Matthew 7:3-5

3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

 

Watermark Church

 

"Accept that you're the problem within your marriage."

 

"When you're arguing both spouses shouldn't leave the argument until both have apologized."

 

Self assessment:

 

1) Do you focus on your spouses faults more often than you're thankful for him/her?

2) Do you believe your spouse is lucky to have you?

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Apr 8, 2019

Are you sick and tired of all the books, speakers, and podcasts (present company excluded) telling you how to parent?  This week, the guys kick off 2019, we our new goal…how to be a “good enough” parent.  It’s not that hard, and it’s the fastest way to remove the guilt that you’re feeling for how much your kids will have to pay in counseling later in life!

 

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Sam Ehlinger

Wild At Heart by John Eldredge

 

 

Texas WINS the NIT!

 

Spoiler Alert: Josh is now losing all his brackets, and his WIFE is about to win

 

Fact: We as parents will make mistakes that will negatively affect our children.

Prepare our kids for the mistakes that we know will happen

Tell your children you are sorry, repair mistakes when they happen

Don't sweat the small stuff

Accept that your child is going to be who they are going to be no matter what you do (within reason)

 

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

 

Jan 29, 2019

So how should we parent? Should we parent based on trying to protect our kids? Or should we try to prepare them? Or both? Listen in as the guys discuss. 

 

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Howard Payne New Braunfels

Fearless Parenting

Homeschooling vs Public School

Focus on the Family: Preparing vs Protection

Age of Opportunity

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Jan 15, 2019

Does the term Toxic Masculinity ring a bell?  It’s become the new “woke” issue in psychological circles.  But the Pairadocs are here to tell you that the term is in fact, poppy cock!  Poppy cock I say!  Listen in as the guys debunk the latest in political psycho-babble.  Not only is masculinity not toxic, it is essential to our families and our society. 

 

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Cowboys Outcome

 

American Psychological Association Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Men and Boys

 

Affirm your son's masculinity early on

Prepare boys and protect girls

Jesus is the perfect example of controlled power

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Jan 15, 2019

Many of you have read and loved the run-away best seller, Circle Maker by Mark Batterson, well join the guys, this week, as they visit with Joel and Nina Schmidgall who co-authored the new book, Praying Circles Around Your Marriage.  Have you ever wanted to pray more affectively for your marriage?  Joel and Nina will provide you with several amazing, yet practical, steps to actually bring that about.

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

National Community Church

 

Mark Batterson's The Circle Maker

 

The Schmidgall's Latest Book:

Praying Circles Around Your Marriage

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Website: theaterchurch.com

Instagram: @prayingmarriage

Twitter: @joelschmidgall and @ninaschmidgall

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Jan 7, 2019

So what do we do with the pain and suffering that we experience in life?  Especially, when it happens to good people, that trying hard to life their lives according to the Word of God?  We want life, and what happens to us in life to make sense, right?  But what do we tell ourselves and our children when it doesn’t?  When life isn’t fair.  When God doesn’t make sense?  Listen in, this might be just for you…

 

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When God Doesn't Make Sense by James Dobson

 

Pain is OK, God doesn't want us to run from pain. Pain is not punishment.

 

We don't trust God because we don't take the time to get to know Him.

 

Celebration of Discipline by Richard J. Foster

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Jan 7, 2019

This week, the guys sit down for a lively discussion with Jeff Huxford.  He had a great career as a physician, a great family, what could possibly go wrong?  How about a car accident that caused a traumatic brain injury?  His life, their life, changed in that instant.  You’ll love his story told in his new book, Finding Normal: An Uninvited Change; An Unexpected Outcome.

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

 Jeff's First Book:
Finding Normal

 

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Website: www.jeffhuxford.com

Facebook: @jeffhuxfordmd

Instagram: @jeffhuxford

Twitter: @jeffhuxford

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Jan 2, 2019

When we say “mindfulness” many of you, especially guys, tend to nod off.  Mindfulness, you assume, is about meditation, yoga, and saying, “Namaste” while struggling to get off the floor.  But that is NOT what we mean by being mindful.  We mean, living your life intentionally, and with purpose.  If you want a better marriage, a better family, a better walk with God, then you have to make a choice to make that happen.  Listen in as the boys do their best impersonation of personal fitness trainers, by instructing you on how you can be your best you!!  Come on!! And two and three…

 

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Caffeine Free Diet Coke

 

Josh's made up change quote:

for change to happen there has to be vision, a plan and an act of will

 

A Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster

 

Change requires 3 things:

We need to realize the need for change

We know what to do to change

Motivation to change

 

If you're not mindful, you're mindless

 

Be present

 

Solutions:

Time with your family (schedule it!)

Talking face to face

Play - do something fun

Say No

Accountability

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Jan 2, 2019

The guys sit down with Brent Crowe this week. He speaks about his new book Moments 'til Midnight. 

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Student Leadership University

 

Brent's Latest Book:

Moments 'Til Midnight

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Website: www.momentstilmidnight.com

Facebook: @brent.crowe.9

Instagram: @brentacrowe

Twitter: @brentacrowe

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Dec 25, 2018

We talk all the time about how we need to choose which battles are worth having with our kids, but the same is true in our marriages.  There’s a difference between an irritant and a “deal breaker.”  So where is that line drawn?  How do we know when to let an issue go with our spouse?  Better yet, CAN we let an issue go?  Listen in as the guys get out their sidewalk chalk and show us where to draw healthy conflict boundaries. 

 

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Steve Martin 

John Gottman Research

Philippi

Thessaloniki

 

"First bucket - Personal Preferences - things that minimally (if at all) impact your life"

"Second bucket - Infractions - things that impact your life but aren't deal breakers"

Third bucket - Deal breakers - things that are separation worthy"

 

  • For personal preferences - mention to your spouse that you'd like this to change and then get over it"

  • For infractions - mention to your spouse you'd like it to change, bring in a 3rd party to speak to you and your spouse (counselor, and then get over it"

  • For deal breakers - mention it to your spouse, seek 3rd person counsel and then potentially separate from spouse.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

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