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Pairadocs is a podcast with a Christian take on life, family, and culture. Jimmy and Josh will provide marriage and parenting insight, to be sure.  However, don't be suprised if other topics emerge,  such as sports, entertainment, politics, or the latest episode of Pioneer Woman - we have way too many women in our lives!

Nov 12, 2018

I know it’s hard to believe, but one day, in the very near future, your child is going to leave to go on a date.  Yep, that was a rush of adrenaline that you just felt.  It’s a shock, but true.  This week, the guys discuss the ins and outs of dating.  All your questions will be answered, who, what, where, when, and sometimes Y and W.  It’s never too early to prepare for that day when your little girl walks out of your house alone with a testosterone enflamed young man. 

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

The sooner kids begin one on one dating, the sooner they begin sexual intercourse.

 

Dads prepare boys and protect girls

 

Importance placed on dating, but not give everything away too quickly

 

Melody Green article on dating unbelievers

 

Dating Standards:

1. Only date believers

2. Suggestion: Group dating at 15, individual dating at 16

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com
Nov 12, 2018

This week the docs sit down with Brett Kunkle to discuss his new book, A Practical Guide to Culture: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Today’s World.  If you’re worried about this culture’s impact on your child as they head off to school every day, this discussion is for you.  Your kids can be prepared to take on all this secular society has to throw at them, and Brett’s books show you how you can be the instrument in God’s hand’s to bring that about. 

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Maven

 

Brett's Latest Book:

A Practical Guide to Culture: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Today's World

 

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Website: www.maventruth.com

Twitter: @BrettKunkle

Facebook: @brett.kunkle

Instagram: @brettkunkle

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

 Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Nov 6, 2018

Is the current, toxic political environment making you anxious?  Scared?  Angry?  A recent radio show asked if it was possible that we are heading for another great American Civil War.  And they were serious!  If this political vitriol and violence is perplexing you and your family, tune in this week as the guys discuss how your family can survive these political times of turmoil. 

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Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Kavanaugh Hearings

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Nov 6, 2018

Ok, ok, ok. We know this is a big week. You can't lead a season with just anyone, that is why we are dropping our interview with none other than Sandy Patty this week. Say what? Yes, we said it - Sandi Patty! Listen in as Jimmy and Josh discuss Sandi's latest book. 

 

Links to information discussed in the show:
 

I've Got Confidence (Sound of Music)

Was it a Morning Like This? MUST LISTEN

 

Sandi's latest book:

The Voice

 

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Website: www.sandipatty.com

Twitter: @SandiPattyP

Facebook: @Sandi.Patty.Music

Instagram: @sandipattyp

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Oct 29, 2018

This week Josh and Jimmy sit down with Rodney Bullard who is the Vice President of Community Affairs with Chick-fil-A, Executive Director of the Chick-fil-A Foundation, and author of the new book, Heroes Wanted.  You are going to love Rodney, an amazing man, with an amazing story, who will share the secret of those amazing waffle fries!!

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

chickfila.com

#heroismondisplay

 

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Website: www.heroeswantedbook.com

Facebook: @authorrodneybullard

Twitter: @rodney_bullard

Instagram: @rodney.bullard

 

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Oct 29, 2018

Tune in as the guys kick around Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Marriage Apocalypse.  Watch Josh treat Jimmy with Contempt, Criticism, Stonewalling, and Defensiveness!   

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Pairadocs on YouTube!

John Gottman

 

The Four Horsemen:

Criticism - Complain about a person's behavior while attacking the person

Contempt - Overall vindictive and hateful attitude toward the person

Defensiveness - Self protection through righteous indignation or playing the victim

Stonewalling - Stop fighting and not seeking resolution

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Take a Seat on the Couch:

 

If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:

 

1. Shoulder some of the blame in every argument; find where you have fault.


2. Realize your spouse is not the enemy; he/she is on your same team.

 

3. Don't react, respond to your spouse's mistakes/sin. 

 

4. If you'd like more help in this area, contact Jimmy and Josh at The Timothy Center. Just go to www.timothycenter.com

Oct 22, 2018

This week the guys talk to the gals behind the podcast Risen Motherhood.  If you’re a parent, especially a mom, their story is going to move and motivate you.

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Risen Motherhood

Risen Motherhood Equipping 

Loving the Difficult Mom

 

Website: www.risenmotherhood.com

Facebook: @risenmotherhood

Twitter: @risenmotherhood

Instagram: @risenmotherhood

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Oct 22, 2018

This week, the boys wrap up their discussion on Contentment…I know this sounds boring, but this lies at the very heart of so many problems that beset our families today.  Listen in.

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

"Contentment is not a behavioral issue, it is a spiritual and emotional issue."

Allen Iverson - Georgetown University

Gottman's Perpetual Marital Problems

Acceptance is the answer to all my problems - AA Big Book p. 417

 

"The answer for unresolved issues - contentment"

 

Antioch Community Church- Waco

Daniel Grant - Google

 

"Teaching your kids contentment occurs through modeling."

 

Ways to fight discontentment:

 

1. Don't sweat the small stuff and it's all small stuff.

2. Humility.

3. Embrace enough. 

4. Discernment. Practice wisdom. 

5. Have faith and trust in God. Be assured of the things you cannot see. 

 

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Take a Seat on the Couch:

 

If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:

 

1. Accept that some things will happen no matter what you do. 

 

2. Accept that some things will not change quickly. 

 

3. Give yourself license to be human and struggle. 

 

4. If you'd like more help in this area, contact Jimmy and Josh at The Timothy Center. Just go to www.timothycenter.com

Oct 15, 2018

While Josh is absent…something to do with a new baby that just arrived or some other lame excuse…Jimmy is speaking with Melanie Shankle, New York Times Bestselling author of The Church of Small Things.  She is hilarious and you're going to love her interview!

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Aggie Football

Pioneer Woman

Big Boo Podcast

Sophie Hudson (Boo Mama)

 

Book by Melanie:

Nobody's Cuter Than You

The Antelope in the Living Room

Church of the Small Things

 

Website: www.thebigmamablog.com

Facebook: @melaniemshankle

Twitter: @BigMama

Instagram: @melanieshankle

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Oct 15, 2018

We are so passionate about our nation’s, church’s, and family’s lack of contentment, that we filled two shows.  This week is part one.  We were going to leave it just one show, but then there was all this other info that we felt had to be added.  I mean we couldn’t just leave it like that unfinished, could we?  It had to be better, in fact this show on contentment could never be good enough, right?  We have to keep working to get it just right.  I’m not sure we can get it done in just two shows…maybe we need three shows to get the topic on contentment JUST right…

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Pairadocs on YouTube

Keith Green

Ray Price

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Take a Seat on the Couch:

 

If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:

 

1. Make time for down time every day.

 

2. Make a list of things you're grateful for.

 

3. Celebrate small successes. 

 

4. If you'd like more help in this area, contact Jimmy and Josh at The Timothy Center. Just go to www.timothycenter.com

Oct 8, 2018

Both of these guys are married.  Both love their wives.  But this week, they kick around the difficult issue of, not just loving their wives, but making sure their wives feel as though they are their number one priority.  Everybody knows we should make our spouses number one, but it’s easier said than done.  It looks good on paper, but as my old football coach used to say, “We don’t play on paper!” 

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Talladega Nights

#1 Wife Mug

AL Franken sexual issues 

Steve Martin Christmas Skit

 

"My job isn't to love my spouse, my job is to make sure my spouse feels loved by me"

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Take a Seat on the Couch:

 

If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:

 

1. Connect with your spouse emotionally throughout the day.

 

2. Check in before making decisions.

 

3. Give your spouse every day.

 

4. If you'd like more help in this area, contact Jimmy and Josh at The Timothy Center. Just go to www.timothycenter.com

Oct 8, 2018

You know him, you love him. He's every Christian's lovable grandpa... Bob Goff. And Guess what? He found time in the midst of loving the entire world to write another book. Listen in as Josh sits down with Bob to discuss Everybody Always.

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Bob's Latest Book:

Everybody Always

 

Also:

Love Does

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Website: www.bobgoff.com

Facebook: @bobgoffis

Instagram: @bobgoff

Twitter: @bobgoff

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

 

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

 

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Oct 1, 2018

This week Josh and Jimmy plow into their second week of exposing Marital Myths. This week they confront Myth #3, Common Interests Keep Us Together and Myth #4, Never Go to Bed Angry.  Dumber words have never been spoken…other than, “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.”  Now, THAT was really dumb, but these two are really dumb as well.

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Links to information discussed in the show:
 
Marriage Myth #3: Common Interests Keep Us Together
You grow and change, so grow and change together
Commitment should be what keeps you together
Interest in our spouse, not in our spouse's interest
 
Marriage Myth #4 Never Go to Bed Angry
Not about the time it happens, just that you don't let it fester
Allow anger, but figure out what is behind the anger
Don't let anger turn to bitterness

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com
Oct 1, 2018

The docs are so excited to sit down this week with none other than Annie Downs.  Annie is host of the very popular That Sound Fun Podcast, and author of the new book, Remember God.  You know her, you love her, and your going to love her even more after hearing her what she has to say about this book that she never wanted to write. 

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Links to information discussed in the show:
 
That Sounds Fun Podcast
 
When God Doesn't Make Sense By James Dobson
 
Annie's latest book:
Remember God
 
Other books by Annie
 
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Website: www.anniefdowns.com
Twitter: @anniefdowns
Facebook: @anniefdowns
Instagram: @anniefdowns

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com
Sep 26, 2018
For the past few weeks the boys have discussed several parenting myths, now it's time to take a swing at the spouses. This is the first installment of marriage myths. Listen in as Jimmy and Josh dispel the myths that happy couples don't argue and marital sex is boring sex.
 
Links to information discussed in the show:
 
Marriage Myth #1: Happy Couples Don't Argue
Happy couples...
argue within limits and just about the issue at hand.
can agree to disagree
solve problems
pursue mutual understanding and mutual empathy
 
Marriage Myth #2 Monogamous Marital Sex is Boring Sex
Happiest, most satisfied sexual relationships are long term relationships
 
If you believe marital sex is boring and bad, you will look elsewhere
 
Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com
Sep 26, 2018

The guys are excited to sit down, for the second time, with Shannan Martin about her new book, Ministry of Ordinary Places: Waking Up to God’s Goodness Around You.  They discuss how God doesn’t call us to necessarily do great things in exotic places, but to do ordinary things in ordinary places to fulfill His Kingdom here on earth.  You’re going to love her…again!

 
Links to information discussed in the show:
 
Shannan's latest book:
Ministry of Ordinary Places: Waking Up to God's Goodness Around You
 
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Website: www.shannanmartinwrites.com
Twitter: @ShannanWrites
Facebook: @shannanmartinwrites
Instagram: @shannanwrites
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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
 
Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers
 
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
 
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/pairadocs
 
Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com
Sep 17, 2018

This week Jimmy and Josh discuss two more parenting myths that so many of us fall victim to.  Myth #3- We as parents must treat all our children exactly the same.  And Myth #4- If you become angry in front of your kids, you’re a bad parent.  Listen in as the guys de-bunk the bunk! 

Sep 17, 2018

This week we are breathing rarefied air as we are welcoming back one of just two guests that have appeared twice on Pairadocs podcast.  While Jimmy is out healing hearts and generally making the world a better place, Josh sits down, once again, with Van Moody about his latest book, Desired by God: Discover a Strong, Soul-Satisfying Relationship with God by Understanding Who His Is and How Much He Loves You

Sep 11, 2018

This week is the first week in a two-part series on Parenting Myths!  Beliefs about parenting that are generally held to be true, yet are as wrong as wrong can be…and wrong can be pretty wrong!  Listen in as the guys discuss Myth #1- Kids should never see their parents argue, and Myth #2- The kids always come first.  How can these two be so wrong, when they feel so right?  Let’s discuss.

Sep 11, 2018

This week the podcast features none other than Sam Collier who is a speaker, social change agent, and host of a national TV show that highlights conversations with the greatest names in Christianity today.  Today, Sam gets to add the Pairadocs to that list…

Sep 3, 2018

Are you and/or your spouse guilty of putting other things before your marriage? If we're not careful, our careers can easily come before our marriage. But this only serves to splinter our home. So what are we to do? Listen in this week as the guys talk through ways to always keep your marriage first. 

Sep 3, 2018

Today, Jimmy and Josh talk to the real deal.  If you ever wanted to mold your Christian faith after a modern-day disciple of Jesus, Dr. David Vanderpool would be THE MAN.  A successful surgeon in Dallas, Texas, left his practice and moved his family to Haiti, to change lives for the Kingdom, one broken dream at a time. 

Aug 28, 2018

The guys talk through whether or not you should spank your kids? Is it ok? Why are so many countries outlawing it? Listen in. 

Aug 28, 2018

The guys sit down with Dana Bowman today, mom, author, blogger. You will love her! She talks about how to be perfect, like her! Enjoy.

Aug 21, 2018

The boys discuss Is the Bible True with Andy Bannister

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