This week the guys talk through essential movies to watch with your sons. Whether you're a dad or mom, watch these movies with your sons. Through these movies you can help them learn healthy masculine traits.
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Questions to ask while watching films:
What qualities were depicted in this film that teach us what kind of man God wants us to be?
How can we, like Christ, stand up against insurmountable odds?
Why do some men choose to die for what they believe to be noble/right?
Essential Movies
3. Rudy
5. Glory
6. Wonder
7. Braveheart
8. Gladiator
9. Apollo 13
10. Hoosiers
**Jimmy Fallon is not on Saving Private Ryan, he was in Band of Brothers
Facts about Paul Revere's ride
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This week the guys participate in their own golf tournament, benefiting themselves. No surprise, no one else showed up. But Jimmy and Josh had a blast playing and having a conversation about their lives as father and son. You won't want to miss.
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I remember once watching John Wayne in an old movie (As every red-blooded American male should do, at least once a month) as he was waiting on top of the wall at the cavalry outpost for an attack from the marauding Indians. He said to a much less experienced soldier, “It’s quiet…too quiet.” In other words, when it gets too quiet, it’s all about the hit the proverbial fan! Freeze and Flee, the last of Sue Johnson’s Demon Dialogues, has to do when couples reach the point of giving up. When it gets quiet…too quiet. If you find yourself or someone you love in this desperate state, listen in as the guys help you not get scalped. Or, or you know what I mean.
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Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
Part 1 and 2 in this series:
Plank and Spec Episode
If you are stuck in the 'freeze and flee' dialogue:
- Share with your spouse a cue that begins the distancing process
- Recognize what you are telling yourself that keeps you separated
Problem solve, discuss with spouse:
When you do _____ I don't feel safely connected to you. Then I tend to _______. I do it in the hopes that ________. And as this pattern keeps going, I feel _________. The more I __________, the more you _______. Maybe we can warn each other when this starts.
Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
Josh's Solutions:
Realize you are the problem in your marriage (humility and repentance)
Seek counsel
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Tune in this week and Jimmy and Josh answer parent questions they received at a recent speaking engagement. The boys bat around several topics you’re sure to enjoy.
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What is the best way to approach the topic of sex with your teenager?
Early and often, don't wait until they are teenagers. This is a lifelong conversation
Raising an Original by Julie Lyles Carr
Preparing for Adolescence by James Dobson
When is a cellphone a good idea and is there an appropriate age to start?
Dumb phone - when you need to communicate with your child
Smart phone - high school/sophomore
How do you apologize to your kid without them using it against you later?
Apologize for your part and punish them for theirs.
They can't leverage it against you unless you let them.
What are the red flags that tells you your child needs counseling?
Look at their lowered level of functioning, see if anything has changed.
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Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast
Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com
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