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Pairadocs is a podcast with a Christian take on life, family, and culture. Jimmy and Josh will provide marriage and parenting insight, to be sure.  However, don't be suprised if other topics emerge,  such as sports, entertainment, politics, or the latest episode of Pioneer Woman - we have way too many women in our lives!

Oct 29, 2018

Tune in as the guys kick around Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Marriage Apocalypse.  Watch Josh treat Jimmy with Contempt, Criticism, Stonewalling, and Defensiveness!   

 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 

Pairadocs on YouTube!

John Gottman

 

The Four Horsemen:

Criticism - Complain about a person's behavior while attacking the person

Contempt - Overall vindictive and hateful attitude toward the person

Defensiveness - Self protection through righteous indignation or playing the victim

Stonewalling - Stop fighting and not seeking resolution

 

Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

 

Take a Seat on the Couch:

 

If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:

 

1. Shoulder some of the blame in every argument; find where you have fault.


2. Realize your spouse is not the enemy; he/she is on your same team.

 

3. Don't react, respond to your spouse's mistakes/sin. 

 

4. If you'd like more help in this area, contact Jimmy and Josh at The Timothy Center. Just go to www.timothycenter.com

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