Listen, we hate to be the ones to break this to you, but here goes…you and your spouse are different. And not just you and your spouse, ALL men and women are different. Despite the growing drumbeat of voices trying to convince us otherwise, males and females are physically, genetically, mentally, and emotionally different. So, when you are at your breakfast table and are staring incomprehensively at the person that is the source of so much frustration in your life. It might not be that they are evil…though we cannot rule that out… It might be that they are simply different. In fact, different as night and day.